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Nationstatelandsville

Astrolinium wrote:Meh. It was a foregone conclusion at this point and it actually does very little to forward the status of LGBT people within the US.

Always the spirit of festiveness.

Agritum wrote:It's symbolic?

In the sense that it was the issue straight people decided was the only important one about our movement. I look forward to seeing a large number of our allies declaring that the fight is over, packing up their activism, and going home. After all, homophobia is over now, just like how the civil rights act ended racism.

Nature-spirits

Astrolinium wrote:Meh. It was a foregone conclusion at this point and it actually does very little to forward the status of LGBT people within the US.

This is quite true, actually. In Canada, we've only made very slow progress with LGBT rights since the legalisation of same-sex marriage in 2005, and we've only made any progress at all because we're not letting up on the governments for one second.

I mean, the Americans still ban trans people from serving in the military, and conversion therapy (denounced by all reputable psychologists and psychiatrists who have done any research on the subject) is still perfectly legal in many states. That's going to take a sh!tload of work to dismantle, and now that SSM is legal, a lot of people are going to ease up on advocacy because they think that SSM is the only real LGBT legal battle (hah).

Nature-spirits

Astrolinium wrote:1) In the sense that it was the issue straight people decided was the only important one about our movement. 2) I look forward to seeing a large number of our allies declaring that the fight is over, packing up their activism, and going home. After all, homophobia is over now, just like how the civil rights act ended racism.

1) This so much.
2) You can, indeed, look forward to it (unfortunately).

Nationstatelandsville

Nature-spirits wrote:1) This so much.
2) You can, indeed, look forward to it (unfortunately).

But the sociopolitical will never existed.

If anything, this decision goes a long way to culturally proliferating the normalization of the community, which makes the presentation of your issues more manageable.

And then they can be treated with all the seriousness we treat the issues of other minority communities -- by calling the riot police!

Nationstatelandsville wrote:But the sociopolitical will never existed.

If anything, this decision goes a long way to culturally proliferating the normalization of the community, which makes the presentation of your issues more manageable.

And then they can be treated with all the seriousness we treat the issues of other minority communities -- by calling the riot police!

There's no repression like repression we can pretend has already been addressed.

Nature-spirits

G-Tech Corporation wrote:There's no repression like repression we can pretend has already been addressed.

Exactly. I really couldn't have worded that any better myself. And that's what's happened to a large extent in Canada -- most cishet (i.e. non-LGBT) people have stopped doing anything to help the community, because as far as they're concerned, queerphobia is over in our country. Of course, we LGBT folk ourselves know better. I don't imagine it will be much different in the US.

Nationstatelandsville wrote:culturally proliferating the normalization of the community, which makes the presentation of your issues more manageable.

Also, I feel I should note that historically, the normalisation of (the most normative members of) the community has been problematic. The people who conform the best to heteronormative and cisnormative standards have gradually been accepted into the fold, leaving the least normative people out in the cold and marginalising them further. The best analogy I can think of is how, in the African American community, the people with the lightest skin are the least oppressed because they're the most similar to white people.

Nature-spirits wrote:Exactly. I really couldn't have worded that any better myself. And that's what's happened to a large extent in Canada -- most cishet (i.e. non-LGBT) people have stopped doing anything to help the community, because as far as they're concerned, queerphobia is over in our country. Of course, we LGBT folk ourselves know better. I don't imagine it will be much different in the US.

Mind you, I don't support gay marriage in the least. I'm of the opinion that marriage is first and foremost a religious institution, and between a man and a woman. In my opinion gay marriage would be better addressed with civil unions capable of all of the benefits of marriage without the name.

But I consider it one of those things I'm willing to not get riled up over. Homosexual acts are sins just like adulterous acts/theft/whatnot, but don't deserve the stigmatization they endure in the modern day. We don't drive liars to suicide, or have yell slurs at men who cheat on their wives.

Nationstatelandsville

Nature-spirits wrote:Exactly. I really couldn't have worded that any better myself. And that's what's happened to a large extent in Canada -- most cishet (i.e. non-LGBT) people have stopped doing anything to help the community, because as far as they're concerned, queerphobia is over in our country. Of course, we LGBT folk ourselves know better. I don't imagine it will be much different in the US.

Also, I feel I should note that historically, the normalisation of (the most normative members of) the community has been problematic. The people who conform the best to heteronormative and cisnormative standards have gradually been accepted into the fold, leaving the least normative people out in the cold and marginalising them further. The best analogy I can think of is how, in the African American community, the people with the lightest skin are the least oppressed because they're the most similar to white people.

I don't know if I buy that logic.

Yes, perhaps the most fringe members of the community are not benefited. But I've not seen any evidence to suggest they are harmed, which still makes this a net win.

Everything that pisses off Russia is a net win.

Nature-spirits

Nature-spirits wrote:SSM is the only real LGBT legal battle (hah).

Female suffrage comes to mind.

After women got the right to vote, people felt that further demands for equality were demanding privileges, or whining for no good reason. I think it's likely that's going to happen in the US.

Nature-spirits

G-Tech Corporation wrote:Mind you, I don't support gay marriage in the least. I'm of the opinion that marriage is first and foremost a religious institution, and between a man and a woman. In my opinion gay marriage would be better addressed with civil unions capable of all of the benefits of marriage without the name.

But I consider it one of those things I'm willing to not get riled up over. Homosexual acts are sins just like adulterous acts/theft/whatnot, but don't deserve the stigmatization they endure in the modern day. We don't drive liars to suicide, or have yell slurs at men who cheat on their wives.

Personally, I'm not interested in marriage myself. In my family, I've only seen a few successful marriages, so the legal ties aren't worth it in my mind. When you're unmarried, separation is easier than when you're married. ;)

Fair enough. Honestly, that's all I'm really looking for from most people. Everyone's entitled to their own thoughts and opinions as long as they don't use them as justification to harm people, in my opinion.

Nationstatelandsville

Agritum wrote:Everything that pisses off Russia is a net win.

The Italian brings a valid argument.

Nationstatelandsville

Wolfina wrote:Female suffrage comes to mind.

After women got the right to vote, people felt that further demands for equality were demanding privileges, or whining for no good reason. I think it's likely that's going to happen in the US.

I don't think there's any question.

But, on the subject of women, that attitude hasn't prevented progress, simply made it extremely difficult and long-winded.

I get the feeling that I better start stocking up on Confederate flags.

Nature-spirits

Nationstatelandsville wrote:I don't know if I buy that logic.

Yes, perhaps the most fringe members of the community are not benefited. But I've not seen any evidence to suggest they are harmed, which still makes this a net win.

*shrug* All I'm telling you is what I've seen in Canada.

True enough.

Wolfina wrote:Female suffrage comes to mind.

After women got the right to vote, people felt that further demands for equality were demanding privileges, or whining for no good reason. I think it's likely that's going to happen in the US.

Precisely my point.

Nationstatelandsville wrote:The Italian brings a valid argument.

We're now a more thoroughly fetid hive of scum and villainy.

I wonder how Da'esh is feeling about their recruitment figures.

Nationstatelandsville wrote:The Italian brings a valid argument.

Does someone from a nation that democratically elected Berlusconi really have a right to mock any nation in general?

Nature-spirits

Nationstatelandsville wrote:I don't think there's any question.

But, on the subject of women, that attitude hasn't prevented progress, simply made it extremely difficult and long-winded.

Well, yeah. That's basically what I said. Of course progress with LGBT rights doesn't come to a complete standstill, but since everyone thinks that everything's all hunky-dory now, it's going to take a sh!tload of time and effort to win the rest of the social and legal battles.

Nationstatelandsville

G-Tech Corporation wrote:We're now a more thoroughly fetid hive of scum and villainy.

I wonder how Da'esh is feeling about their recruitment figures.

"Better than Ankh Mauta, at least".

Wolfina wrote:Does someone from a nation that democratically elected Berlusconi really have a right to mock any nation in general?

I don't know. You Rebs elected Davis, is all I'm saying.

Nature-spirits

Wolfina wrote:Does someone from a nation that democratically elected Berlusconi really have a right to mock any nation in general?

*says the trans lesbian Republican fascist*

:P

Nature-spirits wrote:Well, yeah. That's basically what I said. Of course progress with LGBT rights doesn't come to a complete standstill, but since everyone thinks that everything's all hunky-dory now, it's going to take a sh!tload of time and effort to win the rest of the social and legal battles.

Being able to get married seems kind of a minor victory compared to everything else LGBT people go through in the US. But you know that a lot of people just aren't going to get that.

Nationstatelandsville

Nature-spirits wrote:Well, yeah. That's basically what I said. Of course progress with LGBT rights doesn't come to a complete standstill, but since everyone thinks that everything's all hunky-dory now, it's going to take a sh!tload of time and effort to win the rest of the social and legal battles.

Certainly.

Welcome to the age of pessimism, friends! Here the closest thing you have to an ally is the postmodernist ironic douchebag, and I'm only here because I think it's funny to laugh at people in power.

Wolfina wrote:Does someone from a nation that democratically elected Berlusconi really have a right to mock any nation in general?

To be fair, Berlusconi is the Mussolini to Putin's Stalin.

One is adorably wacky and a bit incompetent, while being somewhat of a menace.

The other is Putler.

Wolfina wrote:Does someone from a nation that democratically elected Berlusconi really have a right to mock any nation in general?

By virtue of not being West Virginian, yes.

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