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The Edgy Fempire of Keomora

Atnaia wrote:She once stole his rent money, spent it on bullsh*t, cried when she was out of money for the month (she is on ODSP or OW or something and gets a monthly cheque to cover her expenses) and had him pay for her rent and food ON TOP of him having to pay a second rent segment to me for covering his half.

Well I'm happy for you that they're out.

Atnaia

Nights edge wrote:Sounds like the world would be a better place if she were to be found in a ditch somewhere .-.

After she has the baby. The baby doesn't deserve that.

Hsinchu

Atnaia wrote:She once stole his rent money, spent it on bullsh*t, cried when she was out of money for the month (she is on ODSP or OW or something and gets a monthly cheque to cover her expenses) and had him pay for her rent and food ON TOP of him having to pay a second rent segment to me for covering his half.

Atnaia wrote:For context of her psychotic behaviour, they first got together last summer, and broke up for a bit in September before getting back together at the end of October. Right after they broke up, she began accusing him of raping her, and spread that rumour through everybody he knew to try and get him shunned and to make his business collapse (he owns a house painting business). She tried to break into our apartment at that time too, and proudly said she had been cheating on him constantly. I have no idea how he thought it was a good idea to start dating her again, but a month after they did she was pregnant. Despite my insistence that he should get a paternity test (she had been claiming that she was cheating only a month before, after all), he never did, afraid that it would offend her. She used my shared diagnosis to make me feel bad and to "ask for my advice" in private, and tried to get me to tell her that he was a cheater and that he shouldn't be allowed to see his longtime female friends. When I told her that he was the most dependably trustworthy person I know when it comes to being a moral person, she flipped her sh*t and forced him to cancel a trip that he had been planning for months at the last minute because a female friend he has known for 20 years was going too. She broke his belongings when they fought, and smashed her head into walls, saying that he "made her hurt herself with his words". Note, she was pregnant and BASHING HER HEAD INTO WALLS LOUD ENOUGH TO WAKE ME UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT because he asked her to try and stay at her new apartment for a couple of nights. She consistently lied, fabricated, stole from and hurt him. I'm honestly surprised she never robbed me, I have several thousand dollars of valuable electronics in my bedroom and no external lock.

Atnaia wrote:Super happy. His proximity has made my life very stressful for nearly a year. Or, rather, his horrible girlfriend and her ripple effects. She is a horrible person, and what's worse, she uses her borderline diagnosis as an excuse. Which is bullsh*t because I have the SAME DIAGNOSIS and I have never done half the sh*t she has while staying here. Having the both of them out of my home will make my quality of life way better: I'll have a cleaner apartment, a better living situation, my own space to destress, and my apartment won't feel like a horrible place to be. Your home should be a place where you can unwind and escape from the drudgery of work and responsibility, but it has just been a prison of worry for me for a year. That's about to end.
He's a good friend and I love him, but he was hell to live with. I chose him as a roommate because I thought he would be low-key and low-stress, but he was the opposite. We only have this apartment because of me (I am long-time family friends with our landlords and have a closer relationship with them than most people have with their aunts/uncles, and they only rent to people they know because we can access their law firm at night as one of our fire escapes). He never respected that or my feelings in the relationship (he never asked me if his girlfriend was allowed to stay here, for example, and he frequently told me major things regarding our living situation LAST, after all our other friends, like when he found out she was pregnant, which naturally meant a few things about our apartment situation). I'm glad that he's leaving before it irreparably damaged our 11 year friendship. I'm also glad to be seeing the back of them before his girlfriend did something that made us lose our lease, which was only a matter of time. She's a convicted criminal, a compulsive liar and a manipulative bitch, and she has done really horrible things to people. It's time they were both gone.

How long were you in that situation? That seems very toxic.

Atnaia

Hsinchu wrote:How long were you in that situation? That seems very toxic.

Since last June. I set rules in August, but when she wound up pregnant my good side won over my logic and I bent the rules for the sake of the baby.

Hsinchu

Atnaia wrote:Since last June. I set rules in August, but when she wound up pregnant my good side won over my logic and I bent the rules for the sake of the baby.

Well good luck now, hope your friendship didn't break though.

Polar svalbard

That's awesome Atnaia, I'm happy for you that you're out of that BS situation. *Raises glass* To your health.

Gonna find a new roommate?

Athara magarat and Xrevaro

Atnaia

Hsinchu wrote:Well good luck now, hope your friendship didn't break though.

As I said, any longer and it would have. But the pregnancy meant that I knew the worst of it had an expiration date for me. Now I can focus on being his friend and not his roommate whose life got screwed.

Hsinchu

Atnaia

Polar svalbard wrote:That's awesome Atnaia, I'm happy for you that you're out of that BS situation. *Raises glass* To your health.
Gonna find a new roommate?

No, I can afford the place by myself. I want to live by myself somewhere I can take pride in. Somewhere I can bring a girl home and not be ashamed of the mess made by the two dysfunctional, codependent children I live with.

Polar svalbard

Atnaia wrote:As I said, any longer and it would have. But the pregnancy meant that I knew the worst of it had an expiration date for me. Now I can focus on being his friend and not his roommate whose life got screwed.

Sucks he won't get a paternity test. You know it is women like that who make actual rape allegations need to be taken with an air of uncertainty and a possibility of falsehood. What a shame.

Polar svalbard

Atnaia wrote:No, I can afford the place by myself. I want to live by myself somewhere I can take pride in. Somewhere I can bring a girl home and not be ashamed of the mess made by the two dysfunctional, codependent children I live with.

Well that's good man. Why did you have a roommate then if you could afford it by yourself?

Nights edge

Polar svalbard wrote:Well that's good man. Why did you have a roommate then if you could afford it by yourself?

Just because you *can* pay the rent bill doesn't mean it gives you financial security in doing so.

He could have started making more money

Was used to life with others

*insert reason*

Xrevaro

Atnaia

Polar svalbard wrote:Sucks he won't get a paternity test. You know it is women like that who make actual rape allegations need to be taken with an air of uncertainty and a possibility of falsehood. What a shame.

The rape allegations mean nothing for that situation. The "I cheated on you" story does. She says she was lying, but she could be lying about lying, and the fact that she may have slept with someone else around the time she got pregnant should have meant he got the test as soon as possible. I know this baby is eventually going to wind up under the watchful eye of Family and Children Services. My mum is the lawyer for the CAS and I know the system well, and that kid won't be taken away but WILL be monitored to make sure it is safe. With her as a mother, I'm worried. Her response to a kitten mewing was to lock it in a bedroom alone for 8 hours. How do you think she will handle a crying baby?

Polar svalbard

Nights edge wrote:Just because you *can* pay the rent bill doesn't mean it gives you financial security in doing so.
He could have started making more money
Was used to life with others
*insert reason*

You make sense. How are you doing these days NE?

Polar svalbard

Atnaia wrote:The rape allegations mean nothing for that situation. The "I cheated on you" story does. She says she was lying, but she could be lying about lying, and the fact that she may have slept with someone else around the time she got pregnant should have meant he got the test as soon as possible. I know this baby is eventually going to wind up under the watchful eye of Family and Children Services. My mum is the lawyer for the CAS and I know the system well, and that kid won't be taken away but WILL be monitored to make sure it is safe. With her as a mother, I'm worried. Her response to a kitten mewing was to lock it in a bedroom alone for 8 hours. How do you think she will handle a crying baby?

Yeah, that's an awful situation and I wish the best for that baby. Man crazy sh*t in the world. Why wouldn't it get taken away?

The Edgy Fempire of Keomora

Atnaia wrote:The rape allegations mean nothing for that situation. The "I cheated on you" story does. She says she was lying, but she could be lying about lying, and the fact that she may have slept with someone else around the time she got pregnant should have meant he got the test as soon as possible. I know this baby is eventually going to wind up under the watchful eye of Family and Children Services. My mum is the lawyer for the CAS and I know the system well, and that kid won't be taken away but WILL be monitored to make sure it is safe. With her as a mother, I'm worried. Her response to a kitten mewing was to lock it in a bedroom alone for 8 hours. How do you think she will handle a crying baby?

God save the child. I really really hope that the woman can put it together for her child...

Athara magarat, Noronica, and Hsinchu

Atnaia

Polar svalbard wrote:Well that's good man. Why did you have a roommate then if you could afford it by yourself?

Couldn't afford it alone when I moved in. I moved in when I was a part-time, commission sales worker at an electronics store. My chain of stores closed and I lost my job and was unemployed for a few months, then I was working as a camp counsellor, then I was a semi-employed janitor, then I was a part time membership services representative at my gym, then I got my personal trainer certification, then I got full time. Since working full time I can afford it. But I wasn't about to kick him out, although I got close when they started dating the second time. Then she got pregnant and I knew his tenancy had a deadline. That made it easier, albeit no less stressful, to grin and bear it for the last 6 months.

The Edgy Fempire of Keomora

Polar svalbard wrote:Yeah, that's an awful situation and I wish the best for that baby. Man crazy sh*t in the world. Why wouldn't it get taken away?

Because innocent until proven guilty. She ain't in jail yet and they will not get separated until the Canadian version of CPS gets alerted. I could be wrong.

Atnaia

Polar svalbard wrote:Yeah, that's an awful situation and I wish the best for that baby. Man crazy sh*t in the world. Why wouldn't it get taken away?

He will have main custody, and his family support structure is super strong. He may not be ready to be a dad, but his mother and father are going to love the hell out of that baby, and they have raised 8 good kids between them (they're divorced and have two families, and the kids have all turned out good, even if my roommate made a really bad decision with this girlfriend, but c'est la vie, it was his first real relationship ever and he made the stupid mistakes everyone makes, only 10 years too late).

Polar svalbard

Atnaia wrote:Couldn't afford it alone when I moved in. I moved in when I was a part-time, commission sales worker at an electronics store. My chain of stores closed and I lost my job and was unemployed for a few months, then I was working as a camp counsellor, then I was a semi-employed janitor, then I was a part time membership services representative at my gym, then I got my personal trainer certification, then I got full time. Since working full time I can afford it. But I wasn't about to kick him out, although I got close when they started dating the second time. Then she got pregnant and I knew his tenancy had a deadline. That made it easier, albeit no less stressful, to grin and bear it for the last 6 months.

Makes sense. You're a good practitioner of the American Dream it would seem. Not giving up in a pursuit for a better life. Anyways, this is awesome Atnaia. Now the next step is to bag a girl.

Athara magarat

Polar svalbard

Atnaia wrote:He will have main custody, and his family support structure is super strong. He may not be ready to be a dad, but his mother and father are going to love the hell out of that baby, and they have raised 8 good kids between them (they're divorced and have two families, and the kids have all turned out good, even if my roommate made a really bad decision with this girlfriend, but c'est la vie, it was his first real relationship ever and he made the stupid mistakes everyone makes, only 10 years too late).

Well that's good at least. Family is the greatest.

Athara magarat

Arconia confedercy

Well the kentucky derby festival is now underway.

Atnaia

Keomora wrote:Because innocent until proven guilty. She ain't in jail yet and they will not get separated until the Canadian version of CPS gets alerted. I could be wrong.

That's got nothing to do with it. A baby will only be removed from a household under these circumstances, sure, but they have two separate households. CAS (or FCS, as it is now called) will give the baby to the parent who is most qualified to raise it, and that will be him, with the support of his mom and dad. The girlfriend doesn't have any support, she's estranged from her family, and she's a bad person, so even though family courts tend to give leniency towards the mother, the EMPLOYED, SUPPORTED father will win any custody trial over the UNEMPLOYED, MENTALLY DISTURBED mother.

Keomora

Atnaia

Polar svalbard wrote:Makes sense. You're a good practitioner of the American Dream it would seem. Not giving up in a pursuit for a better life. Anyways, this is awesome Atnaia. Now the next step is to bag a girl.

Not any American Dream. I'm Canadian, and I certainly don't see it in any high minded way. I needed to work to eat, so I took the first job I could get even though I don't always love it. I'd rather be doing work with less customer service, but I would never be able to find something with the same pay and benefits in this job market. I don't have a degree after all. So I need to go back to school in some capacity. But to do that means, surprise surprise, giving up my job and stability. I have been looking into distance learning classes so that maybe I could do it in my spare time.

Hsinchu

Atnaia wrote:That's got nothing to do with it. A baby will only be removed from a household under these circumstances, sure, but they have two separate households. CAS (or FCS, as it is now called) will give the baby to the parent who is most qualified to raise it, and that will be him, with the support of his mom and dad. The girlfriend doesn't have any support, she's estranged from her family, and she's a bad person, so even though family courts tend to give leniency towards the mother, the EMPLOYED, SUPPORTED father will win any custody trial over the UNEMPLOYED, MENTALLY DISTURBED mother.

If she's mentally disturbed do you think she'll get an abortion? Is she happy with her pregnancy?

Doppler

Jahe davmwoem wrote:Polar svalbard
That moment you are talking about EU4 stuff to a friend, but a teacher not knowing what that is hears out of context "The only thing worse than a Muslim is an Austrian" lol.

well... he's not... wrong.

Athara magarat

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