Welcome! 10K islands is a great choice for a home. We are all generally chill and have pretty active conversations on the Rmb board, we have a forum that has cool features but it's really hard to find active people(coming from a guy that just now trying to get into the forum scene). You should still check it out though.
Ok, advice time. Ns is all about choices. There is no "wrong" choice and whatever effects may come can be reversed through choice making. This site give the players the chance to see what it's like for real leaders making nation decisions. There is a lot packed in here and I'm still discovering new things in the system.
If you are interested in politics and such. There is the WA and WA forums(there are other forums too) where you can discuss issues that effect the whole of nation states
Hope you stay awhile
Dang it I was going to make a post detailing his argumental flaws. Then I read your post and now it seems pointless