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Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever among women dies while her husband is pleased with her, then she will enter Paradise.”

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1078

Grade: Hasan (fair) according to At-Tirmidhi

عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ قَالَتْ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَيُّمَا امْرَأَةٍ مَاتَتْ وَزَوْجُهَا عَنْهَا رَاضٍ دَخَلَتِ الْجَنَّةَ

1078 جامع الترمذي كتاب الجمعة أبواب السفر

قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ غَرِيبٌ

So apparently my wife is not obliged to cook. Ok cool so I have to eat everyday at McDonald's and take up a large amount of my wage. Nice.

"And men are provisioned over women."

Imaam al-Ghazaali said:

“The position of leader (imaam) could never be given to a woman even if she possessed all the qualities of perfection and self-reliance. How could a woman take the position of leader when she did not have the right to be a judge or a witness under most of the historical governments?”

Imaam al-Baghawi said:

“The scholars agreed that women are not fit to be leaders or judges, because the leader needs to go out to organize jihaad and take care of the Muslims’ affairs, and the judge needs to go out to judge between people, but women are ‘awrah and it is not right for them to go out. Because of their weakness, women are not able to do many things. Women are imperfect, and the positions of leaders and judge are among the most perfect of positions for which only the most perfect of men are qualified.”

Undoubtedly this is proven by reality. People know from experience that only men are fit for leadership, because women by nature are more emotional and more easily swayed by their feelings and compassion. These qualities have been created in women to enable them to carry out their most important duty, which is that of motherhood and nurturing children. Men, on the other hand, are not usually swayed by their emotions as women are. Their way is usually one of logic and deliberation, which form the essence of responsibility and leadership.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy

And the Quran and hadith are 1400+ old so what is the issue with the 1800s. It is not that long ago. Whether european or non european, muslim or non muslim, white or black, the stance on women are the same

"And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance…” [al-Ahzaab 33:33].

Nomadic sister of shawnas north africa wrote:

المفروض بصراحه ان مصر تخلص الشعب السودانى الشقيق من الخروف الاخوانى البشير دا لانه زودها قوى والبلد دى عايزه ثوره عالحكم اللى فيها ده🤔😱🇰🇼🇪🇬