I will respect her nation as long as she respects mine. The same goes for you as well. You may be stronger than me but you have to realize that when I took the crown, I helped the economy thrive, I pimped up my army and I am helping my people get by on their day to day lives. I respect but I am not an obedient robot.
"Understandable. But deference is important. The wise defer to those in power, while fools hold onto scraps. Do not be a fool, and treat those stronger than you with respect."
Then why did you let it happen
The Duke of Edinburgh was not granted the title of king because of a rule that states the husband of a ruling queen is called prince consort, just as wives of kings are typically referred to as queen consort.